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How To Get Your Baby To Sleep At Naptime
Author: Melida Cohen
If you baby is not napping well during her
first few months of life, you may want to try to cut back on the time
she is awake by 15 minute increments. If she is getting overstimulated,
then she will fight sleep and be difficult to get to nap. The way
to prevent this is to watch her “sleepy” cues to make sure that you put
her down when she is beginning to get sleepy.
Some parents believe that letting their child cry will harm him or her.
Fifteen or twenty minutes of crying will not harm your child physically
or mentally. Babies will learn to self-soothe and fall asleep by
themselves, but only if you let her. It is very important that babies
learn to fall asleep by themselves so that they can self-soothe if they
awake in the middle of the night. Otherwise, you may have a child that
will not sleep through the night for years.
Regular sleep patterns are intermeshed with regular eating patterns, so
let us look at the stages of a baby’s life:
Newborn: Your newborn will sleep anywhere from 16 to 20 hours a
day, including the naps that he takes between feedings. When your baby
has been fed, let him stay awake for a short while and then put him down
before he becomes overstimulated.
Two months: At two months and older, your child should be allowed
to try to self-soothe during their naptimes and bedtime. Crying is
normal when you put your baby down, but it is okay. If he cries for
longer than 10-15 minutes, then go in and check on him. Don’t get him
up, but pat his bottom or lightly rub his back until he calms down.
3-6 months: At around 3-6 months, your baby will stop taking one
of his naps. Usually it is the third nap or late afternoon nap that they
do not need as much. He may be a little fussy and may want to take a
little nap, but you need to try to keep him up if you want him to go to
bed at a decent time and sleep soundly through the night.
16+ months: When your child is between 16-20 months, they usually
quit taking the morning nap in favor of a longer nap in the afternoons.
Babies this age usually sleep between 10-12 hours a night and take a 2-3
hour afternoon nap.
Ground Rules about Naps:
1. You decide when the nap starts and ends, not the baby.
2. When your baby is older than 4 months old, she will wake up crying if
she hasn’t slept enough. She might have a dirty diaper, be in a position
that is not comfortable, or cold/hot. Fix the problem and encourage her
to go back to sleep. Babies that have enough rest wake up happy,
talking, and in a good mood!
About The Author: Melida Cohen is
author of "Baby's First Year: Everything You Should Know but probably
don't," She is a mother to 3 children. Her goal is to empower new moms
and mothers to be. Visit http://www.CareForMyBaby.com to get a free copy
of
her baby care newsletter or visit her blog http://www.CareForMyBabyBlog.blogspot.com
to chat with her and other new moms.
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